In through the gateway we go, along a path and down past the hurdle fence. We're out in a little terrace, a real sun trap, in front of a cottage. There are swathes of blue love in a mist flowers to the left of us. 'Follow the arrows,' our hostess says. 'There's tea and home made cake at the bottom of the garden.' We're in the heart of Beaminster. It's a little cottage tucked behind an ordinary terrace. But the grounds are a dream. They're full of wild flowers and informal planting, a real joy for a country child like me. There are wooden seats here and there, and a bit of statuary. There are also some few people ambling around, lured in by the red balloon on the gate. We make our way down through foxgloves, ox-eye daisies, spurge, lavender and valerian, along a springy grass and clover path the width of a lawnmower. 'You're going to love this bit,' my friend says. She's been here before and she also knows me very well. ...